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Speaker, Author, Psychologist


PBS Interview

Shaifali Sandhya speaks on how refugee trauma affects their integration 


Dr. Sandhya is an internationally acclaimed author, public speaker, and expert couple and family therapist. She has collaborated with hundreds of couples and families across cultures on rebuilding their relationships. Her areas of expertise are intimate relationships, psychological trauma, forced migration, and physician wellness. She is the author Displaced: Refugees, trauma, and integration within nations (Upcoming December 2023, Oxford University Press) & Love Will Follow: Why the Indian Marriage is Burning (2009, Penguin Random House). She is available as a consultant for healthcare companies to redesign care models to improve cultural integration, clinical efficiency, and patient experience. She is available to speak on mental health in Ukrainian refugees, psychological trauma, forced displacement, and refugees.


Dr. Shaifali Sandhya is a US and UK-trained psychologist. She earned a PhD. in The University of Chicago, US as a Mellon Fellow and an M.A in Natural Sciences from the University of Cambridge, UK as a Cambridge Commonwealth Fellow and Rajiv Gandhi Fellow. She is the Chair of the American Psychological Association's Division 52, International Committee of Women (2021-2023).   

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I have over twenty years of experience in curating growth, recovery, and success of individuals and families. My multicultural expertise has been honed through interviews with hundreds of diverse individuals, interracial couples, and families spanning two decades from Greenland to India to the Faroe Islands... 





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Anthony Ong


Cornell University 

"In Love Will Follow, Shaifali Sandhya provides a sound, humane, and empirically grounded framework for interpreting how modern-day Indian couples wrestle with tradition, societal changes, and ultimately how they create something “new.” Written with a high level of sophistication, the book is nonetheless extremely accessible and full of deep insights about human behavior as well as useful suggestions for how to apply them in everyday life."

— Dr. Anthony Ong, Professor of Human Development, Cornell University, USA

Ninette Kelley

People Forced to Flee: History, Change and Challenge

In this insightful book, Shaifali Sandhya sheds light on a critical but often overlooked aspect of refugee well- well-being: mental health. Drawing from the lived experiences of refugees whose journeys have been shaped by suffering and resilience, Sandhya illustrates the importance of psychological well-being to their physical health, learning and employment. Importantly, the book offers valuable insights and actionable solutions on how to how strengthen refugee settlement services. It also provides a powerful reminder that in providing better care to refugees, we also strengthen our communities. 

Anthony Chambers
Northwestern University

"As evidenced by the historic election of the first biracial Indian and Black Vice President, Dr. Sandhya’s book is the perfect book at the perfect time! She explores and provides clinical wisdom for the understudied population of Indian Couples. Given the tumultuous times we are all living in with regards to race relations, this book comes at a time when the profession is craving for more culturally informed writings. This book is a must read for all graduate students and practicing clinicians looking to be a culturally informed therapist!"


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